Tuesday, May 19, 2015
motivate your child ACTION PLAN - A Book Review
Motivate Your Child ACTION PLAN written by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne Miller, RN, BSN is a followup book to their previously reviewed at The Zoo Crew book simply titled Motivate Your Child published by National Center for Biblical Parenting. I was originally drawn to this book and its teachings because it fits so very well with our goal to raise these three currently under our tutelage to be motivated, self-sufficient, young people, and later adults, with a love for God, family, and community. We are more thoughtful of our parenting style and technique now than we ever were with the seven that went before them. Let's just say we learned a lot, and there is a lot to say about giving some forethought and prayerful consideration to just what it is we are doing under this title we wear called parent.
In Motivate Your Child we learn about parenting to the heart of our children. We are introduced to the conscience and the importance of helping our children to develop a strong one. Despite its ability to stand alone as a wonderful parenting tool Motivate Your Child ACTION PLAN is a perfect companion for the original Motivate Your Child. It's written in a workbook style with short chapters that focus on a specific area and task. I have this aversion to writing in books, so I started a text file on my computer and am working through the book that way. The chapters are simple to read and easy to follow. What may take you some time though are the action items. Though the concepts and given tasks are simple in their stating and ideas, the actual process of carrying them out can elicit some emotion and require some soul searching.
In our family we are working through some big stuff. Life has thrown some major hurdles at us, and we are making wonderful emotional progress. It can be the toughest for our soon to be ten-year-old. As most of you know, she is our granddaughter, and we are legal guardians to her and her younger sister who is four. They have been with us for nearly three years. For the young one the transition has been more natural, but the soon to be ten-year-old has had to unpack some baggage. She's come a long way, and we've come a long way with her. Talk about feeling like you're traveling unfamiliar terrain wearing a blindfold! Praise God we've had some wonderful support from more wise than us people perfectly planted in our lives at the precise moment they were needed. Motivate Your Child and Motivate Your Child ACTION PLAN are just two more resources in the perfectly timed support system in which we have been blessed.
When I finished reading the first book back in January I have to admit that I was a tad frustrated. I had all this wonderful information that I agreed with wholeheartedly, but I lacked the tools necessary to know just what to do with this information. I was super excited for the opportunity to review this follow up book with its 12 audio presentations, one for each chapter. With our family dynamics, and my one deaf ear, listening to or watching anything for informational purposes can be quite challenging. It's just not my time in this department. Quiet? Seriously? You have that in your home? I did manage to listen to the first one (well, most of it), and it is nice to hear the authors elaborate on the content of the chapter. I can see where this resource will be beneficial to many. Maybe I can benefit from it at a later date, like when my kids are all 10 and above!
Anyway, I am taking the process of working through this book very seriously. My main focus is working with the oldest child, but I am already experiencing where what I am learning is carrying over to the other two. In a way it reminds me of when you commit to morning devotions, and you notice the impact it has in all areas of your life when you stick to the commitment. This is the same way. Once I started working on my relationship with my oldest at home, I saw the benefit with most all of my relationships. It's kind of a mindset thing. Honestly, I am not as far along in the book as I would like to be at this point, but some things just cannot be rushed. This is another circumstance where we create better children by becoming better parents ourselves. Sometimes this means we have to do some serious soul searching and looking within. It may require a little more time on our knees. I am dedicated to finishing each part of the book before moving on as I desire to gain as much from this process for myself and my family as I possibly can manage.
Raising children that are secure in who they are with the motivation they require to move on and up in life requires some serious soul work on our part. I've been around the block enough times now to know that there are no guarantees. BUT, we can always do our best to lay the strongest possible foundation for our children to lift off from. What they do with it is their own choice, and I pray that working through the Motivate Your Child ACTION PLAN will equip me with more relevant strategies to assist my children in the growing process so that they can develop a strong conscience and a healthy motivation to be all that God has planned for them to be.
If you purchase your copy of Motivate Your Child ACTION PLAN on or before May 31st you can receive 25% off the cover price. By using the promo code AP5BGT you will receive an ADDITIONAL $5 off for a grand total of $15 off the cover price!